Sunday, June 29, 2008

Emotional Quotient(EQ) Quiz

EQ, or your emotional intelligence – is the fuel you need each day to make your life a success. Actually, research studies now show that EQ is almost 50% of your success! Whether you have a home business or work in a more traditional setting, high EQ is the lubricant for this success.

Your EQ announces to the world how emotionally intelligent and capable you are. IQ tells the world what you can do; EQ tells what you will do.


Take the following simple 12-item EQ self-test. Be honest with yourself.


Item QUESTION Yes No
1. Are you able to recognize your feelings, how you truly feel?

2. Can you differentiate among the different feelings you have?

3. Do you know why you feel the way you do?

4. Can you express your feelings, beliefs and thoughts and defend them in a non-destructive way?

5. Do you respect and accept yourself, just as you are, warts and all?

6. Do you feel secure and self-confident most of the time?

7. Would others who know you say you have a good sense of yourself?

8. Are you realizing your potential?

9. Would you say you have a meaningful, rich and full life?

10.

Do you feel excited and satisfied with your accomplishments?



11.

Are you self-directed and self-controlled in how you think and act?



12. Are you free of emotional dependency on others?

High EQ types will consistently score between 10-12 almost every time.

How did you do?


Ref:

Emotional Intelligence Wiki

How Emotionally Intelligent are You?
by Doris Jeanette, Psy.D.

What’s Empathy Got To Do With It?
By Bruna Martinuzzi

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Teaching VS Teacher: Which One Are You?

you are not a teacher just because you teaching something to someone.

teacher is the one who touch your hand, mind and heart and makes you a better person and having a better life.

If you want to be a true teacher, you need to not only teach something to your students but you must also "touch" your student's "hand, mind and heart" with the intention to make your students become a better person.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Invest VS Gamble For Your Better Life

There are time, energy and money as a source you can use to live your daily life. Everytime you do something, you are actually investing some of those three main source of life. So think carefully before you invest any of it. After all, we are all investor in this world. So be a good investor. There sure is time when you need to gamble some of it, but all in all, choose to be a good investor rather than relying on your gambling skill(no matter how good you are at gambling your life).

Take time to think/choose/evaluate where to invest your time, energy and money so you will get valueable return on investment or benefit for your better life/future.

Better yet, never gamble.

Friday, June 20, 2008

When USD25 is about having a good time together

Yesterday was our farewell party, and everyone needed to contribute RM75(thats about USD25) to afford that party which will be held at hotel.

Because this party is a gesture of farewell, i think the USD25 is worth it. But somehow, some of us think that USD25 is too expensive. They argue that its totally insane to invest USD25 just for a one night dinner for they can spend the money to afford dinner for a whole week.

I think to my self, do you think the farewell party is for having a regular dinner? Hello, we are having it as a gesture of farewell, as sweet memory having dinner together for about 51 people here. Do you think you can have this another time for, say USD25? I say, never again.

The party went smoothly, but a few people don't come because they don't want to invest USD25 for having a good time together with the whole class.

Money, instead of sweet memory are their best interest. I demand the answer why??

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Matieuisme's 7 Wisdom About Success

1. Want to be success? Have a dream, and have an action plan to realize that dream. And then act the plan. Than reflect whether you achieved success or not. Then repeat again from the beginning.

2. If you are cat, never try to compete racing with horse, expecting for success.( you may want to compete in cat race instead)

3. Refer to point number 2 above, If you don't know you are cat, try look into a mirror often. One day you will know who you are.(Then please stop racing with horse, and start racing with cat, ok...)

4. You will never become famous(and success) if you always sit in the middle, acting and feeling like you don't want anyone to notice you. (Yes, no one will notice you if you keep doing that. No one care either.)

5. Success is subjective. It depends on what you learned/heard/read about success from those around you, who live in same timeframe with you or before you.

6. Success can be achieved in one single step(such as success in switching a lamp), but meaningful success usually need more than a million steps (such as success in making your first million dollar)

7. You will be moved toward success if you put an act(whether small or big action) into achieving your dream, rather than just keep dreaming all day long.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

The New 7 Wonders Of The World

1.The Pyramid at Chichén Itzá (before 800 A.D.) Mexico

Chichén Itzá, the most famous Mayan temple city, served as the political and economic center of the Mayan civilization. Its various structures - the pyramid of Kukulkan, the Temple of Chac Mool, the Hall of the Thousand Pillars, and the Playing Field of the Prisoners – can still be seen today and are demonstrative of an extraordinary commitment to architectural space and composition. The pyramid itself was the last, and arguably the greatest, of all Mayan temples.


2. Christ Redeemer (1931) Rio de Janeiro, Brazil


This statue of Jesus stands some 38 meters tall, atop the Corcovado mountain overlooking Rio de Janeiro. Designed by Brazilian Heitor da Silva Costa and created by French sculptor Paul Landowski, it is one of the world’s best-known monuments. The statue took five years to construct and was inaugurated on October 12, 1931. It has become a symbol of the city and of the warmth of the Brazilian people, who receive visitors with open arms.


3. The Roman Colosseum (70 - 82 A.D.) Rome, Italy


This great amphitheater in the centre of Rome was built to give favors to successful legionnaires and to celebrate the glory of the Roman Empire. Its design concept still stands to this very day, and virtually every modern sports stadium some 2,000 years later still bears the irresistible imprint of the Colosseum's original design. Today, through films and history books, we are even more aware of the cruel fights and games that took place in this arena, all for the joy of the spectators.


4. The Great Wall of China (220 B.C and 1368 - 1644 A.D.) China


The Great Wall of China was built to link existing fortifications into a united defense system and better keep invading Mongol tribes out of China. It is the largest man-made monument ever to have been built and it is disputed that it is the only one visible from space. Many thousands of people must have given their lives to build this colossal construction.



5. Machu Picchu (1460-1470), Peru

In the 15th century, the Incan Emperor Pachacútec built a city in the clouds on the mountain known as Machu Picchu ("old mountain"). This extraordinary settlement lies halfway up the Andes Plateau, deep in the Amazon jungle and above the Urubamba River. It was probably abandoned by the Incas because of a smallpox outbreak and, after the Spanish defeated the Incan Empire, the city remained 'lost' for over three centuries. It was rediscovered by Hiram Bingham in 1911.


6. Petra (9 B.C. - 40 A.D.), Jordan

On the edge of the Arabian Desert, Petra was the glittering capital of the Nabataean empire of King Aretas IV (9 B.C. to 40 A.D.). Masters of water technology, the Nabataeans provided their city with great tunnel constructions and water chambers. A theater, modelled on Greek-Roman prototypes, had space for an audience of 4,000. Today, the Palace Tombs of Petra, with the 42-meter-high Hellenistic temple facade on the El-Deir Monastery, are impressive examples of Middle Eastern culture.


7. The Taj Mahal (1630 A.D.) Agra, India

This immense mausoleum was built on the orders of Shah Jahan, the fifth Muslim Mogul emperor, to honor the memory of his beloved late wife. Built out of white marble and standing in formally laid-out walled gardens, the Taj Mahal is regarded as the most perfect jewel of Muslim art in India. The emperor was consequently jailed and, it is said, could then only see the Taj Mahal out of his small cell window.



***The New 7 Wonders of the World were announced during the Official Declaration ceremony in Lisbon, Portugal on Saturday, July 7, 2007 - 07.07.07.

7 Websites You Cannot Live Without

1. Yahoo - My first encounter with internet life back in 1998 is yahoo search, yahoo mail, yahoo messenger and yahoo chat. Until today, all of the yahoo service are still relevant in my life(maybe in your life too).

2. Friendster - First social network site i used back in 2003. I don't know about you but for me, i found many long lost friends and also made new friends from here. For me, Friendster is still the best(forever)!

3. Youtube - You just can't miss finding funny vids, your fav singer video clips, some educational vid such as Abs training video or anime like dragonballz video and more!

4. Google - Its search engine page is simple yet powerful to use. Whenever people ask me where to find something? I said "just google it". And yeah, I like google adsense because you can make money from it(p.s. I made money from internet using google adsense alone).

5. Blogspot - I am using blogspot to post to matieuisme blog like everyday :D (well at least many times per week)

6. Cimbclicks - This s my local internet banking service in Malaysia. I prefer this compared to its bigger, more popular competitor.

7. Onemanga - This is where I read the latest episode of Naruto and Kekkaishi manga :P